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Women's economic prosperity is the key to global prosperity. Period. I am surrounded by phenomenal women with AI skills extraordinaire and subject matter expertise to beat the band.

Over the course of my work as an entrepreneur, AI educator, AI consultant, cofounder, speaker, and whatever other random things — I took fast action to implement a breadth of demand generation strategies and tactics. During that time, I was able to (a) grow demand, and (b) test my demand generation to learn what worked best to attract my ICPs and what I genuinely enjoyed doing.

I made this guide to help you accelerate your demand generation and begin attracting the people you want to work with.

I'm one who will torture herself over the BEST POSSIBLE WORD in a document no one but me cares about — so I know the impact of having support to keep moving along.

While I'm obsessing over a word, I'm not reaching out to clients. While I'm freaking out over a sales meeting, I'm leaking precious energy. When I have imposter syndrome and role confusion and no one to talk to about it in the middle of the night, I get stuck.

So I made these babies. I poured all my wisdom and learnings into them. You won't be disappointed.
  • 0133 Years of Subject Matter Expertise, Now In Your Corner
  • 02Hundreds of Millions of Dollars in Contracts Signed
  • 03Deep Understanding of Buyer Psychology
  • 04Navigates Imposter Syndrome, the "I'm not ready yet" thing, and any stuckness
  • 05Bias toward action
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Why Your Voice Matters Now

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Decode Your Voice DNA

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Build Your LinkedIn Billboard

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Chapter 1 of 9

Why Your Voice Matters Now

The premise — AI sands down your voice, and the audience you want cannot find you if you stay quiet.

Anne MurphyFounder, She Leads AI and Empowered Fundraiser Consulting
Your Tool for This Chapter
Three voice words on a sticky note
Build it in the workbook below.

The Reading

Will you rise to the level of your goals — or fall to the level of your systems?

Storytime
🥴

The Tripod Graveyard

This is tripod number 86,000. I have never once used this. It sits right here in case there's a day where maybe I might use it.

I have six of these. I have box lights that are this big. They're taking up my whole entire garage.

My children told me — like, intervention mode — you have to calm down. You've taken over the whole house with your box lights.

Guess how many videos I published that I made with all those lights? Zero. A window.

— Anne, Lights Camera YOU · April 22, 2025

The AI conversation right now is mostly happening in voices that do not sound like yours. When CREATE 2026 reviewed 200 applications, the majority sounded the same — AI-flavored, vanilla, interchangeable. Women's voices get sanded down by AI more than anyone else's. Anne, Member Jam · May 20, 2026

Three things AI does to your voice

Brings down the average. AI picks the most probable next word. Your weird edges are where your voice lives. AI flattens them.

Substitutes your quirks. Your unusual syntax, your slang, your abrupt shifts — AI reads them as errors and removes them.

Normalizes your stance. If you write with a political, feminist, or confrontational edge, AI softens that into "both-sides commentary" or "bland empowerment talk."

What we know is — if we don't know you, don't like you, and don't trust you, we're never going to do business with you. And one of the things we love about video content is that it's the fastest way down that spectrum. You will go from unknown by somebody to trusted like that. Anne, Lights Camera YOU with Hunter Lee Canning · April 22, 2025

The cost of staying quiet

The cost of staying quiet is not neutral. The conversation fills with whoever shows up. Right now there are roughly 86,000 AI podcasts looking for guests who are not tech bros. Conference organizers are reading 200 applications and choosing the few that have a point of view.

I know everybody can say this — I have so many hang-ups about my appearance. I have dealt with self-loathing and body dysmorphia my whole life, and I probably still do. But by making video content, by forcing myself through this barrier, on the other side of it I actually love that woman who stood up there and made that video for all the world to see. She has balls. She knows that her message is not about her. It's about other people. Anne, Lights Camera YOU · April 22, 2025
Ages ago, somebody convinced me that the hardest part of a fitness routine is going from the couch to the doorknob of your front door. The rest of it is easy once you've gotten off the couch and touched the doorknob. Now you're going there. It's very much like that with making content. If you have your mindset right and you just hit that red button, you're off to the races. Anne, Lights Camera YOU · April 22, 2025

Anne has given the same talk for $0 and for $12,000. Same talk. The difference both times was the digital footprint behind her name.

Sometimes I think of myself as the talent and I talk to myself like this — this is me, Anne Murphy, the talent that represents Empowered Fundraiser or She Leads AI or whatever. So it's actually not up to me. And also, it's not about me. It's about the people who I can serve. Anne, Lights Camera YOU · April 22, 2025
More from Anne on the cringe and the journey
If you don't feel cringy about the first, second, 50th video you made, or even the video you made yesterday, you're probably not doing it right. Like, that's what it is. Anne, Lights Camera YOU · April 22, 2025
The style that people want is authentic. There's a woman named Barbara Corcoran, she's like the real estate mogul on Shark Tank. Her team only lets her make content after she's taken her face off. When she makes short-form content with her face on, she gets no engagement. When she looks like a normal human being is when she gets engagement. And you might find that as well. Anne, Lights Camera YOU · April 22, 2025

The Workbook

Exercise 1.1 — Three Words

Write three words that describe your voice. Sarcastic. Warm. Blunt. Dry. Urgent. Pragmatic. No-nonsense. Irreverent. Careful. Pick three of yours.

See Anne's voice words for reference
Anne's are dry, irreverent, pragmatic. She also leans in on swearing on stage so people know she will not be a corporate person if you hire her.

Exercise 1.2 — The Talk to Zero People

What is the smallest, lowest-stakes version of going public with your voice this week? A LinkedIn Live with one friend in the chat. A TikTok recorded in your kitchen. A panel of three at the library. Write it down and schedule it.

See Anne's example
Anne once gave a talk to zero people. After that, the football field of humans was easier. The talk to zero is the unlock.

Exercise 1.3 — The Cost of Staying Quiet

What is the topic where staying quiet has been costing you or someone you care about? Write the cost out loud.

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You have three words on a sticky note, and one low-stakes public move scheduled this week.

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Chapter 2 of 9

Decode Your Voice DNA

Chapter 1 made the case for voice. This chapter does the work — you build a written profile of your voice that you can paste into any LLM as a system prompt, so AI works with your voice instead of against it.

Anne MurphyFounder, She Leads AI and Empowered Fundraiser Consulting

The Reading

In Chapter 1 you decided your voice was worth defending. Good. Now you need a written record of what your voice actually is — specific enough that an LLM can read it and stop sanding you down.

This is voice DNA — the four elements that make your sentences sound like you and not like the average internet writer.

The Voice DNA framework

Diction — your word choice. Plain or ornate. Slang or formal. The words you reach for first, and the ones you never reach for at all.

Syntax — your sentence structure. Short and punchy. Long and looping. Fragments. Run-ons. Where you put the verb.

Tone — the emotional register. Sarcastic. Warm. Authoritative. Pragmatic. Dry. Urgent. Funny.

Quirks — your sacred words (the ones you always use) and your bursty words (the ones that carry rhythm). Plus the rules you break on purpose.

🪑 Storytime — Mrs. Van Valza Threw a Chair

Mrs. Van Valza was Anne's fourth-grade teacher. She told Anne you don't end a sentence in a preposition. She also, allegedly, threw a chair at Anne. Anne ends sentences in prepositions on purpose. Mrs. Van Valza is discredited. The chair did it.

The point — the grammar rules you were taught that make your writing sound less like you are often wrong. Or they're correct for an essay you wrote in 1986 and incorrect for the LinkedIn post you are about to publish in 2026.

Ending a sentence in a preposition is conversational. I don't care what Mrs. Van Valza said in fourth grade. I don't care. She also threw a chair at me, so she is discredited. I end sentences and prepositional phrases because that's what human beings do. Anne, Advanced AI Writing Intensive · 2025

Sacred words and bursty words

Sacred words are the ones you use constantly. They are not fancy. They are not always grammatical. They are the words that signal "this is me" to anyone who has read your stuff before.

Bursty words are the ones that carry the rhythm. The intensifiers, the swerves, the words that change the energy in a sentence. They show up rarely, but when they do, the sentence lifts.

One of the things I do when I'm using AI to write something is I have a list of things that only I say or that I feel like are very me-ish. And I may just use that for my email. The application might be kind of profesh, but I want to find a way to put my own sparkles on it. So I have a list of words I will sometimes put back into AI that are not grammatical. Anne, Member Jam · May 20, 2026

Talk, don't type

The fastest way to capture your real voice is to stop typing and start talking. Type, and you self-edit in real time. Talk, and your asides, your stories, your jokes, your rhythm come out. The asides are where the voice lives.

So just right from memory, scratch it all out. Take yourself on a 30 minute retreat, give yourself a five minute window. Stream of consciousness. Let it flow through your hands or speak it. I'm here to evangelize the talking versus typing. Just talk and have it form a talk out of that. It's so much better. The result is head and shoulders above because it gets your stories in, it gets your asides. Anne, Member Jam · May 20, 2026

The three sins of AI against voice

Brings down the average. AI picks the most probable next word. Your weird edges live in the improbable next word. AI flattens them.

Substitutes your quirks. Your unusual syntax, your slang, your abrupt shifts — AI reads them as errors and removes them.

Normalizes your stance. If you write with a political, feminist, or confrontational edge, AI softens that into "both-sides commentary" or "bland empowerment talk."

The defense is to feed AI your voice on purpose, every single time. Which means you need it written down.

Your Tool for This Chapter

The Universal Voice Profile Prompt

A linguistic analysis prompt you paste into Claude or ChatGPT with 10+ samples of your own writing. The model returns a 10-dimension profile of your voice. You save the profile and paste it into every new AI conversation so the output sounds like you, not like the AI.

Playbook 2

Mine Your Voice DNA

Step-by-step on extracting your voice profile and putting it to work.

  1. Gather your samples. You need at least 10 pieces of your own writing that sound like you. Emails you have sent. LinkedIn posts. Transcripts from voice memos. Slack messages with real teeth in them. Avoid anything that was already AI-edited.
  2. Paste 1,000+ words into one document. Mix the formats. Long emails, short posts, transcript excerpts. The more variety, the better the profile.
  3. Open Claude or ChatGPT. Paste the Universal Voice Profile prompt (in the workbook below) into a fresh conversation. Drop your sample text at the bottom where the prompt asks.
  4. Run it. The model returns a structured profile across 10 dimensions — sentence length, word choice, tone, syntax, semantic patterns, persuasion style, stylistic devices, narrative structure, themes, rhythm.
  5. Save the profile. Copy the output into a markdown file or Google Doc. Name it your-voice-dna.md. This is your voice on paper.
  6. Paste it into your AI of choice as a system prompt. In Claude, paste into a Project's system prompt. In ChatGPT, paste into Customize ChatGPT custom instructions. Every conversation from here on starts with AI knowing your voice.
  7. Re-run it quarterly. Custom instructions drift. Models update. Your writing evolves. Refresh the profile every three months so it stays accurate.

The Workbook

Exercise 2.1 — Gather Your Samples

Where will you pull your writing samples from? Tick the sources you can grab in the next 20 minutes. You want 10+ samples that sound like you and were NOT AI-edited.

If you cannot find 10 samples, ask AI to dig — "Search my Gmail for emails over 200 words I sent in the last 90 days." Or talk for 10 minutes and have your phone transcribe.

Exercise 2.2 — Run the Universal Voice Profile Prompt

Copy this prompt. Paste into Claude or ChatGPT. Drop 1,000+ words of your samples at the bottom.

📋 The Universal Voice Profile Prompt — Click to Copy

Exercise 2.3 — Paste Back Your Voice Profile

Once the LLM returns your profile, paste the full output here. This is the file you will save and reuse forever.

Exercise 2.4 — Your Top Three Distinctive Markers

From your profile, name the three markers that most distinguish your voice. These are what AI will most easily flatten. These are what you defend.

Exercise 2.5 — Your Sacred and Bursty Words

Make a working list of words and phrases that are very you-ish. The "sparkles" Anne mentioned. Sacred words on top — what you use all the time. Bursty words below — the rhythm-makers that show up rarely but always land.

Sacred words (you use them constantly)

Bursty words (rare, but they land)

Exercise 2.6 — Wire It Into Your AI

Where will you paste your voice profile so AI uses it by default? Tick the ones you will set up today.

Done When

You have your-voice-dna.md saved AND you have pasted it into Claude or ChatGPT as a custom instruction. Your AI now starts every conversation with your voice in hand.

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Chapter 3 of 9

Build Your LinkedIn Billboard

Chapter 2 gave AI your voice. This chapter puts that voice where people look first — your LinkedIn profile — and turns it into a billboard that answers one question, what should people do with you.

Anne MurphyFounder, She Leads AI and Empowered Fundraiser Consulting

The Reading

You've got a trust moat to build — a digital footprint that proves you're a real person, that you've been one for years, and that you mean to keep being one. Organizers and bookers check before they say yes. What they find is what they decide on.

Anne has given the same talk for $0 and for $12,000. Same talk. The difference both times was what showed up when someone searched her name.

Her frame on the profile itself is — it's a billboard. It answers one thing. What the heck should people do with you? Hire you, book you for a talk, or bring you onto a panel — pick the main one and point everything else toward it.

The Know, Like, Trust funnel

Anne runs her LinkedIn presence on the Know, Like, Trust factor — the three stages someone moves through before they hire, book, or refer you.

  • Know — they recognize your name and your face.
  • Like — they read your stuff and want what you make.
  • Trust — they book you, buy from you, refer you, or invite you in.

Why LinkedIn carries the weight

Anne's take — it feels boring and salesy, and it's also where the people with budgets are.

  • Over 1 billion members in more than 200 countries, built for B2B
  • Decision-makers are active on it
  • Google trusts it, so your profile lands on page one when someone searches your name
  • The search runs on keywords, which is why AI has to be in your headline if you speak on AI
If you want to speak on anything AI-related, be sure that AI is in that little couple of words underneath your name on LinkedIn. Because the first sorting is always going to be the word AI. It's always going to be AI. So if you don't have that in there, you won't pop up. They're going to say AI and your field, and that may be it. So I recommend having that. Anne, Member Jam · May 20, 2026

What goes on the billboard

Eight pieces do the work. Anne's checklist, straight from the deck.

  • Banner — your personality, your logo, and what you're promoting right now.
  • Photo — profesh, facing the camera, recent, and probably not AI-generated.
  • Headline — power-packed terms, with AI in it if you speak on AI.
  • Company logo — needs a Company Page to attach to.
  • Link — to your website, your opt-in, or your portfolio.
  • Hashtags — your content pillars, which you'll define in Chapter 4.
  • Contact info — fill in everything, open to all.
  • Bonus — record how to pronounce your name and add a welcome note to your page.
💼 Storytime — My Stupid LinkedIn Made Me a Big Deal

Someone reached out to Anne for a gig. Tracing it back — one person saw her on LinkedIn, one saw a talk, someone else saw a different talk, and they all knew each other. By the time the prospect landed on Anne's profile, she had the impression Anne was a big deal and would be lucky to work with her.

The punchline is that Anne hadn't fussed over the profile at all. She'd done the basics. That was enough. You don't need a perfect LinkedIn. You need a present one.

The deeper sections

Three sections below the fold do the heavy lifting once the billboard is built.

  • Featured — your offers, your personality, your other socials, your opt-ins. Put your best proof here.
  • About — don't overthink it. Open with a hook strong enough to earn the "see more" click. It's not a repeat of your CV. End with a call to action and add five skills.
  • Experience — answer why anyone should care. Not boring like a CV. Include your skills and add media.
  • Recommendations — this is your social proof. Give them and ask for them, don't be shy, get a breadth of people, and hand each one a few bullet points so it's easy for them to say yes.

Your three brand checks

Once the billboard is built, run it past the three checks Anne uses.

  • Sounds Like You — does someone hear your voice when they read it, or a corporate version of it.
  • Resonance — does the profile speak to the people you want, not to everyone.
  • Visibility — are you posting often enough that your activity shows you're present, not silent.

Algorithm Karma

Visibility isn't only about what you post. Anne's rule of thumb is a 10-to-1 comment-to-post ratio — for every post you publish, leave ten real comments on other people's. Comments tell the algorithm you're an active contributor, and the algorithm returns the favor by boosting the reach of your own content. That's the karma.

Commenting is also audience borrowing. Comment with substance under the big voices in your field — Greg Eisenberg, Allie Miller, Nicole Weffer — and your expertise lands in front of a targeted audience someone else already gathered. Richard van der Blom's annual LinkedIn algorithm reports document the mechanics, year after year.

The LinkedIn tool stack

Four ways to put power behind the billboard once it's built. Algorithm Karma is free — the rest are paid upgrades you pick based on how you sell.

ToolStrategic valueTactical use
LinkedIn PremiumHigh-power search researchDeep-dive prospecting and identifying key decision-makers
Sales NavigatorAdvanced lead identificationComplex, multi-touch sales cycles and intent data
LeadDelta (Teams)Shared connection visibilityThe Teams account lets members see each other's tags and coded connections — a community-led sales advantage
Algorithm KarmaReach and authorityKeep the 10-to-1 comment-to-post ratio going to maximize profile visibility

Connection request etiquette

We subscribe to the school of don't put a message in your connection request. And the reason for that is, if you put a message in your connection request, the person now has to respond. Anne, Social Saturday · June 2026

A personalized message creates a debt of response — if she has to compose a reply before she can comfortably accept, your request is more likely to sit ignored. A plain request lets her glance at your billboard, see what to do with you, and say yes without homework.

More and more I'm thinking websites are just for people to know that you're serious enough to have one. And they're for the agents. They don't need to be pretty. They need to say the things that need to be an H1, an H2, an H3. They need to be your AEO and SEO terms. If you want to rank for women's AI communities, then your H1 and your H2 need to say it. So people are looking for you. Anne, Member Jam · May 20, 2026

Your profile doesn't have to be perfect. Do the basics, point it at one answer, and it works.

If you find yourself overthinking — I help ___ do ___ so they can ___. Remember, done is better than perfect. You can't steer a parked car, yo. Anne, Personal Brand on LinkedIn deck
Your Tool for This Chapter

The AI Authority Builder

A prompt that takes your Voice DNA from Chapter 2 and drafts your billboard for you — three headline options with AI baked in, a first-line hook for your About section, and your I-help statement. You pick one, tweak it, and paste it onto your profile.

Playbook 3

Build Your LinkedIn Billboard

Step-by-step on turning a stale profile into one that answers what people should do with you.

  1. Decide the one answer. What do you want people to do with you — hire you, book you, bring you onto a panel? Write it in one line before you touch the profile.
  2. Rewrite your headline. Lead with what you do and for whom, and put AI in it if you speak on AI. This is the line LinkedIn's search sorts on first.
  3. Fix your About hook. The first sentence has to earn the "see more" click. Don't repeat your CV. End with a call to action and add five skills.
  4. Set the banner and photo. The banner shows your personality and what you're promoting now. The photo faces the camera, is recent, and is not AI-generated.
  5. Load the Featured row. Your offers, your opt-ins, your other socials, your best proof. This is the row you fully control.
  6. Turn on the social proof. Ask for a handful of recommendations and hand each person a few bullets so it's easy. Give a few back.
  7. Run the three brand checks. Sounds Like You, Resonance, Visibility. Score yourself and fix the lowest one first.
  8. View it logged out. Open your profile in a private browser window to see what a stranger sees. That's the billboard.

The Workbook

Exercise 3.1 — Your Billboard Audit

For each piece of your billboard, jot what it says now and what you want it to say.

Headline (the line under your name)

First line of your About section

Banner, photo, and Featured row

Exercise 3.2 — Draft Your Billboard With AI

Copy this prompt. Paste your Voice DNA from Chapter 2 where it asks, then run it in Claude or ChatGPT to get headline and About options in your own voice.

📋 The AI Authority Builder Prompt — Click to Copy

Exercise 3.3 — Pick Your Weakest Brand Check

Rate yourself 1 to 5 on each check. Then name the lowest one and the first change you'll make to it.

Exercise 3.4 — Your One-Page Bio

Draft a one-page bio you can paste into any pitch. You'll fill your three pillars in Chapter 4.

Name

Three-line story

Two testimonials

Headshot link

Exercise 3.5 — Add AI to Your Headline

The smallest move with the biggest payoff. Do it now if you speak on AI.

Done When

Your headline has AI in it and is live on LinkedIn, AND you have a one-page bio saved that you can paste into any pitch.

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Chapter 4 of 9

Choose Your Three Content Pillars

Chapter 3 built your billboard. This chapter decides what you talk about — one personal touchstone and two professional topics.

Anne MurphyFounder, She Leads AI and Empowered Fundraiser Consulting

The Reading

Anne thinks in three content pillars — one personal touchstone and two professional topics. The touchstone is the low-stakes way in, and it's the thing podcasters and audiences remember. The two professional topics are things you could already talk about to a friend over coffee for an afternoon.

If you're saying the same thing every time and you feel sick of saying it, you're doing it right — people need to hear it many times before they know you're the one for it. Anne, Mentoring at Scale deck

Touchstones from Anne's slide

  • Dogs
  • Improv
  • Underwater basket weaving
  • A personal story
  • An origin story
  • Anne's own — her wedding-ring story, her red-shoe rule for sales calls

Professional topic categories from Anne's slide

  • Privacy and Security
  • AI for Job Seekers
  • AI and Your Subject Matter Expertise
  • AI and Fundraising
Your Tool for This Chapter

Your three-pillars doc

One doc holding your three voice words, your touchstone, and your two topics. You will open it every time you write a pitch.

The Workbook

Exercise 4.1 — Your Personal Touchstone

Write your touchstone in two or three sentences.

What did you choose, and why does it still feel right after you have written it down?

Exercise 4.2 — Your Two Professional Topics

For each topic, jot how you would open and where the topic is alive in your work right now.

Topic 1

Topic 2

Exercise 4.3 — Save Your Three Pillars

Pull your three voice words from Chapter 2 plus your three pillars into one doc you will open every time you write a pitch.

Take It Further

  • Which pillar would you still want to be associated with five years from now
  • What pillar is your friends-and-clients data already pointing toward that you have been ignoring
  • What would change if your personal touchstone was the part you led with instead of the part you closed with
Done When

You have one touchstone and two professional topics saved in a doc you will open every time you pitch.

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Chapter 5 of 9

Make It a Spicy Meatball

Your pillars are set. This chapter makes your title carry your voice — because vanilla titles get cut in the first pass.

Anne MurphyFounder, She Leads AI and Empowered Fundraiser Consulting

The Reading

When Anne reviewed 200 CREATE applications, the AI-vanilla titles got cut in the first pass. The title is where your voice has to come through.

I keep a list of the words and phrases that sound like me — including the way I end sentences in prepositions, because that's how people talk — and I run every AI-drafted title through that filter before I submit. Anne, Mentoring at Scale deck

The title quality ladder from the CREATE review

  • Excellent — "Why Creatives Will Be the Next Tech Giants" · "Being a Time Traveler in Your Own Life"
  • Good — "Scaling Towards AGI with Mixture-of-Experts Models" · "The Human-AI Delta™ — Designing AI Transformation for Human Judgment, Not Just Automation"
  • Not ideal — "AI That Works for You — Designing Human-Centered AI Systems That Drive Real ROI" · "AI Essentials for Professionals — Becoming Irreplaceable in the Age of AI"

The not-ideal titles use the same words a thousand other applicants used. The excellent ones have a point of view in them.

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Pitch Coach

Anne's Pitch Coach skill — run your chosen title through it before you submit anything live.

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Exercise 5.1 — Draft Three Titles

Draft three working titles for your primary professional topic. Read each one aloud. For each, name the word that sounds like you and the word to cut.

Which one would you put on a live application this week?

Exercise 5.2 — Run It Through Your Voice DNA

Paste the chosen title into your AI tool with your Voice DNA profile loaded. Ask the model to rewrite it three more ways while preserving your voice. For each variant, note what sounds like you and what sounds like AI.

Pick the final.

Take It Further

  • What is the one phrase only you would say across a stack of 200 applications
  • Which of your favorite recent reads or shows used a title structure you could borrow
  • If a stranger only read your title, what would they assume about your stance
Done When

You have one title with your voice in it, ready for a live application this week.

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Chapter 6 of 9

Build Your Prospect List

You know what you talk about. This chapter builds where you'll say it — fifteen names on the bench.

Anne MurphyFounder, She Leads AI and Empowered Fundraiser Consulting

The Reading

Four places speaking gigs come from.

  • Your industry — conferences and events in the field you already work in.
  • An industry you want to enter — speaking is a way to establish presence in a new space before you are fully in it.
  • Local groups — libraries, chambers of commerce, and business groups that look for speakers.
  • Conferences — from large national events to small niche gatherings.
You're not pitching everyone this month. You're building the bench. Anne, Mentoring at Scale deck
Your Tool for This Chapter

Ultimate Prospect Research Tool

Anne's prospect research tool — build the picture of a stage, podcast, or organization before you pitch it.

The Workbook

Exercise 6.1 — Five Podcasts

Five podcasts you would be a good guest on. Not the top of the AI podcast list — podcasts your prospective clients listen to. For each, note the host, the episode that tells you the audience is yours, and whether the lead is cold, warm, or ready.

Exercise 6.2 — Five Local Organizations and Industry Conferences

Five organizations within driving or easy-flight distance. Mix in at least one outside your comfort zone. Note who runs the speaking calendar and why your topic fits.

Exercise 6.3 — Five Stretch Stages

Five stages, conferences, or formats you are not ready for yet but want to be. Note why each one stretches you and what you would need to be ready in twelve months.

Take It Further

  • Which prospect on the list has the closest audience-fit to your current paying clients
  • Which stretch stage do you keep talking yourself out of pursuing
  • What would happen if you reserved one hour per week just for researching new prospects
Done When

You have fifteen names on the bench — five podcasts, five organizations, five stretch stages.

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Recorded Sessions + Decks

  • Pitching Yourself for Speaking and Podcasting Gigs · Member Jam — Anne Murphy, host · May 20, 2026 · deck and transcript
  • Mentoring at Scale — Anne Murphy, author · deck and transcript
  • Personal Brand on LinkedIn — Anne Murphy, author · deck and transcript
  • Advanced AI Writing Intensive — Anne Murphy, author · deck and transcript
  • Leveraging Thought Leadership for Speaking — Anne Murphy, author · deck and transcript
  • Stop Prevaricating, Start Monetizing — Anne Murphy, author · deck and transcript
  • Lights, Camera, YOU · workshop — Anne Murphy and Hunter Lee Canning, co-hosts · April 22, 2025 · deck and transcript
  • Vera · Your Follow-Up Wingwoman — Anne Murphy, author · deck and transcript
  • Deck for AI Intensive, Governance, Upskilling — Anne Murphy, author · deck and transcript
  • AI Fall Forward Curriculum — Anne Murphy, author · deck and transcript
  • She Leads AI Programming 2026 — Anne Murphy, author · deck

Claude Skills That Went Into This Blueprint

  • AI Authority Builder — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Client Persona Builder — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Pitch Coach — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Follow-Up Engine — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Proposal Builder — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Workshop Maker — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Playbook Creator — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Dossier Extreme — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Personal Curriculum Hub — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Bio + Speaker Materials Generator — Anne Murphy, builder · free tool
  • Ideal Client Persona Lab — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Vera — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Discovery Meeting Prep — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Imaginary Persona Builder — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Sales Page Builder — Anne Murphy, builder
  • Ultimate Prospect Research Tool — Anne Murphy, builder

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